Hi AAron thanks for writing.
You know, I have searched through a lot of dating sites. I have a dozen or so dating sites contact me, telling me they were totally free - only to find out it was totally free for 3 days.
I don't think "Totally Free" works as a business model. I've been told by a lot of dating site owners that they can't make it on advertising income alone.
Here is the deal, when men and woman are on dating sites the only ads they want to read are "Personal Ads". They don't care about Travel Deals or Free Email or Internet Services.
I have found a number of sites who use bots to make people think they're interested in them and such. It takes a little work on my part to sort out the bots from the "real deal" but I have a system now. I won't review a dating site that users bots.
Hope this helps, keep in touch.