Ok, so I was dating this guy for 5 years and we broke up 6 months ago. I broke it off because he was very over protective and wouldn't allow me to have friends or anything. Soon after we broke up, I decided I wanted him back but he didn't feel the same and started dating someone else. I was heart broken and confused because when we were together he always said he wanted to get married and so forth. I started dating someone else...didn't work out..he broke my heart as well..don't understand what went wrong he always told me how he cared so much about me and how he was falling in love with me...and one day that stopped and said that he didn't know what he wanted anymore...??? (but still wants to hang out and be friends??) So anyway, the 5 yr relationship guy starts calling me back. I am really excited and decide to go and meet him one night. He tells me how he still cares and loves me and how he wants to just go and get married. I am like WOW!!! He is kissing me and talking about how he just can't get this feeling with any other girl and going on and on....BLA BLA BLA. After that I don't hear from him anymore....and one night he sends me an email saying that he is sorry he doesn't want to lead me on and he isn't suppose to be with anyone right now. That we can still be friends and hang out....to just please understand and how he has changed over the past 6 months??? Help I just don't understand what I do wrong in relationships..I don't find myself to be clingy but have a problem with showing my sexual side to soon I guess. I just still picture myself being with this guy for the rest of my life and don't understand why he can go one day telling me he still cares about me and another saying he can't be with me anymore?? WHy do guys do this crap...I don't understand, please someone help!! Sorry so long!