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am newly single after 20 yrs of marriage as of january. am trying the dating websites.
have question for the single women out there. this is what i'm encountering. most men
want to just have me come over and hang out and their place for some wine and conversation.
then a second and third encounter seem to be the same, i end up going to his house.
granted it's been 20 yrs since i was single, but don't men spring for drinks or dinner out
anymore??
-Maria

just checking my post occasionally. hmmm...99 people have read this and no one
has a response...just curious and would like to hear from either men or women about
this. i've actually dated another man since this posting and same thing, he's really busy
so he wanted me to come over for wine and a movie....then he asked me "out" for the
following weekend- meeting him at his house again to "hang out"....

don't go....if he is cheap now he will get worse.
hang in there for a real man who knows how to romance you. no one says they need to spend a fortune but at least he can pack a picnic lunch and go for a drive, pick her some wild flowers and provide some music. cheap jerks are a dime a dozen.
don't waste your time. they will want to borrow gas money next....

am newly single after 20 yrs of marriage as of january. am trying the dating websites. have question for the single women out there. this is what i'm encountering. most men want to just have me come over and hang out and their place for some wine and conversation. then a second and third encounter seem to be the same, i end up going to his house. granted it's been 20 yrs since i was single, but don't men spring for drinks or dinner out anymore??

-Maria