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I've had a couple dates from hell and it is simply because some women see weight issues differently than me.  I'm no James Bond, but I do hit the gym 3 times a week and watch what I eat.  So when women post beautiful pictures of their face and say they go to the gym and watch what they eat, I don't assume they're carrying a lot of junk in the trunk when they list themselves as "a few extra pounds".  My god. my last date the women was 5'6 and 190 pounds.  That isn't a few extra pounds!

As soon as I saw her I want to leave.  But I was a gentleman and stayed, made small talk and then told her I didn't think we were a match.  Thank god it was lunch and not dinner!

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Mike
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Bossman

But it's just as true for women. I had some great phone conversations with a guy who had chosed the "a few extra pounds" category. He turned about to be one of those men with an enormous belly who wears his belt beneath it. Couldn't be less attractive! I guess people hope that when you experience their sparkling personalities, the visual won't matter. Wrong.

 

Hey Big Bossman,

if you are "hitting the gym" three tilmes a week and have a few brain cells between your ears I am sure that you will find a beautiful babe of your dreams in no time.  Question is ,, why would she want to be with you??

Big And Beautiful